How To Be Happy And The Moral Values To Success?

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THE hidden cause of their failures is their moral values which are blocking their success. Yes, your moral values are deliberately blocking your success. Your moral values are deeply imbibed in your psyche and can be very difficult to change, unless you use NLP techniques to do so. At this point, it may be difficult for you to grasp the connection between your moral values and success, but as you read on you will be able to understand and relate to it as well.

One of the ways I explain it during our NLP Master Practitioner Trainings, is that I often tell my students that I have the power to play with your emotions, make you upset and I can do that even if I was mother, father or any one very close in your life. Many of my students deny it first and I should warn anyone conducting this type of session, to check for any weapons with students beforehand as the session could take a nasty turn. I then, approach the one whose denial is the loudest and the strongest; make them upset in just few minutes. How did I manage to do it? I simply went against their moral values and even challenged their moral beliefs.

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... enough proof to conclude that each individual has his/her own set of moral values; and they can't stand anyone going against the same. Moral values are also synonymous with values, moral code, morals, standards, principles, ethics, and beliefs. In my training I prefer using the term values and beliefs. I consider the two very closely connected to each other and the former exists because of the latter. Values are the beliefs a person has absorbed from social group or any source in which they have invested emotionally. NLP Training in Delhi These beliefs are the impressions of your unconscious mind and play a very important role in determining whether you should succeed or fail in life. The greatest wars and the most frivolous arguments have occurred only because of the difference in values. Our happiness then depends on our values.

When Gustav Eiffel built the Eiffel Tower, there were many objections and opposition to its design. Many people thought he has gone crazy to create something like this, but Eiffel Tower turned out to be one of the most loved monuments in the world. Gustav Eiffel surely had the power to turn the can't in to can. People who opposed the Eiffel Tower, had their own set of beliefs and created a hurdle for the construction at times, but it was Gustav Eiffel's conviction and strong belief in his dream which eventually won. Hence values or beliefs can make or break every aspect of our lives.

Where do these values and beliefs come from? Of course, from within us but something created them within us in the first place. We receive our values and beliefs as impressions from our parents from infancy to teenage. But in our teenage years our awareness of these values grows and we choose to either keep some of them or simply reject those that we can't agree with. At this point, our world is a mix of our beliefs, values and external ones that we continue to absorb/reject on a daily basis. This even leads to judgment and having opinion of others.

Values live in your sub-conscious mind

Our sub-conscious mind is our powerhouse and energizes everything we give our attention to, irrespective of whether it is good or bad. The sub-conscious mind is always at play and many people don't even know that it exists. This is also one of the reasons we are not aware of our values which are stored in our subconscious mind. These values can have positive as well as negative emotions underneath them, and the negative emotions are creating blocks in your values. These are creating repeated failures in certain areas of your life.

Values rule over your Self esteem

There are certain values which empower you in seconds and can change your entire emotional state from sad to happy and then there are values which bring the opposite result. Your values guide you on almost every action you take on day to day basis, irrespective of whether it is small or big. Most of us have fallen in to the habit of framing our actions and beliefs in line with those of others. This is where the real problem begins. We follow others and ignore the great master within us. The more we ignore our own values and follow others, the more disconnected we become with ourselves and eventually end up being unsuccessful. You might as well point out, that it is very unrealistic to not trust others or consider feedback from others. To this I would say that, weigh all the external beliefs and values with your own internal value system and you will be able to pick the ones you need to follow and discard the rest. Your feelings are the best indicators of a positive or a negative outcome.

Remove Value Blocks with NLP techniques

The good news is that once these negative blocks have been cleared from your subconscious mind, you can begin to see immensely positive changes in every area of your lives. We upgrade our apps, our office systems, and anything which can offer better functionality with upgrade. Better functionality brings ease and comfort. Similarly we must consider upgrading or tuning up our internal programming too, which can fix our problems, help us make better decisions, bring us our much deserved success and change our lives in ways we have never imagined. Life is a roller coaster ride, but you can make it a joyride with NLP techniques.