Save Your Marriage

By Author: Dan Rawitch
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OW TO SAVE A MARRIAGE

PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE

Marriage is difficult to determine if those rocky love waves are just normal or could they be imminent signs of disaster ahead. It is human nature to want to fall in love and the desire to want to spend the rest of one's life with someone.

ARE SYMPTOMS AND SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER IN THEM?

Before this painful moment of truth that your spouse is leaving you, there were probably signs of your spouse's departure beforehand. Think of healthy need that you want to accomplish that your spouse can easily fulfill. If your spouse is becoming more and more absent within the marriage, this could be a sign of a marriage crisis. If you spouse is keeping their distance from you or if your spouse is ignoring you while you are in his presence most of the time there may be other logical reasons why your spouse is behaving in this way. There are many possible reasons why your spouse is avoiding you and some of those reason could be that your spouse might be having problems at work, your spouse maybe financially stressed out or your ...
... spouse might be going through some personal issues and if one of these reasons are the cause of the distance between you to, the best thing for you to do is to let him know that you are there to listen and to provide him with love and support. If your spouse never has anything to talk about or doesn't like talking to you anymore then read the newspaper or watch television to become a distraction. There are several signs of a marital break-up in which a man will evidently notice but woman will know by their intuition most times.

WHEN AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE, WHAT ARE YOU DOING?

Books aplenty are sold in your favorite bookstores. Your negative reaction is a one way ticket toward a divorce. The first 3 reactions are negative and not remedial measures. When you read it, it is not good enough, so you tear it up and write a better one. Ask yourself, what will happen if I do nothing, if I do not change direction and if I do not change my destiny?
Before making your decision, ask yourself the following questions:What will be the true cost of a divorce? Aside from the money involved, there will be the enormous stress, many hours spent in pain and doubt, embarrassing moments with relatives and friends and a lot more.

WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?

Anger is the emotion that follows because the person cannot find any reason why the spouse is getting away from relationship. Take that action now. The spouse will be embarrassed to tell family and friends about the breakup. This is the most damaging causing people to procrastinate and react properly.

HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?

Arrange a civilized meeting with your spouse after your rage has subsided. Infidelity does not mean that the marriage is over because surviving infidelity and healing your relationship is possible. Talk to your friends, support group and others acquaintances that might be knowledgeable about the affair.

WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?

Changing your partner's mind by your arguments is futile. Then remember what made you fall in love with each other. Disillusionment grows when expectations are unfulfilled. Avoid the trap of telling your partner that he is wrong. Let your spouse hold on to their dreams and give them 100 support to achieve her goals in life. Couples do no always engage in rational discussion. Marriage can be a blissful union when the couple respect and love each other.

Your kids will raise their own families and you are retired. By going on a date, there is no alternative than to dress up to show your spouse how attractive you still are. Schedule a date night. Get to know the person sleeping beside you each night. At least once a week, go on a date to energize your relationship. You can also show him what a good cook you are and how lucky he is to have you as his partner. Become conscious of your body, exercise, reduce your weight, plan your diet, go to the beauty salon, the spa and buy a new dress.

HOW CAN YOU SAVE A MARRIAGE?

You transform into a much better new you. The result of disagreements depends on how both spouses are able to handle conflicts between them. In modern day parlance, you undergo a make over.
Dan is a frequent writer of both success and matters of the heart. He is very passionate about helping people have great relationships.

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