Domestic Trials

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Each individual household dreamed a happy life makes for a happy household occupants-inhabitants can live in an atmosphere of calm, harmony and peace. Every member of his family to love one another, respect and carry out household activities with full compliance. The journey of life a happy family based on the principle of taking care of each other and in mass between one another, was always ante up during a conflict and resolving problems. Other than that, each of the spouses may increase further potential and foster a close relationship with another person. In the life, they was always sensitive to the change and attempted to adjust himself.

A family much happiness in life depends on mutual understanding in a conjugal nexus interweave. Their failure to do so will bear the tension and conflict. Accordingly it is not possible to say that free crisis is a common case in a household no matter how the household harmony. This situation can only be overcome by the wisdom of the husband and endorsement than a loving wife.
Everyone will want his home life was in a state of romantic, quiet and peace. But, such circumstances ...
... does not mean a family who had never had problems. In fact, surely there will be a problem caused by internal or external factors and this will happen over time.
Therefore, we must realize carry in our home lives will not be released rather than problems or conflicts, and you as a married couple should be aware of it all.
Below are some tips and review how you deal with problems home life:
1. Find the source of the problem first, you should really be looking for the real source of the problem you are experiencing. Know cause problems that arise because that way you will know the real problem.

2. Avoid yourself dissolved in trouble, do not let you dissolve in trouble, let alone you do not know what you should do. Take the solution what you should do and you focus on the subject. If indeed the problem is hard, not something you unplug your grief in a way that tears your heart feels a little relieved,, but remember you should not be trapped or imprisoned by your problem, you have to get out of the problem. Remember life is beautiful, still lots to do and tomorrow is yours.

3. Find a solution. Once you know the problem, and then focus your mind and find a solution what is the best alternative to solve the problem. Maybe you have several options, but remember where the best thinking and the best of what you should do, you may need advice from others that would be great for your consideration in deciding the best.
4. Find Relief from Brother and Friend. If you have a problem and it was too heavy and can not solve your own may be better to turn to than your brother or your garden. You should not get too hung up with a problem that will only waste your own time. Tell me your problems with your family or friend and ask for solutions from those who would be your consideration to determine the best decision. And the role of those that you may need that your role in the problem.
5. Pray. By praying to God about family problems that are befalling your household is, your heart will feel calm and submit to Him and ask for help to the best decision in your case it is.
6. Resolve the issue as soon as possible. Not a good idea to dissolve the old-old in trouble. If you've found the best option or solution, you do ACTION immediately.
But it's probably just wait until the right time, but you have to remember when the time comes, if the time is right you ACTION immediately so that your issue is not protracted.

7. Take lessons from your problems. Indeed, every problem there must be a lesson, not just a family problem only all problems were definitely a silver lining. Make all of it as a test in your life, and all that you have to go through and live. Believe me you will be more mature and calm in living life tomorrow.

The crisis in the case of a husband and wife is common apply within households as harmonious despite all their communications. Incidence of domestic crisis may give a positive impression when he or she controlled his deep well resolved he may strengthen again conjugal relationship. However, if too much of a problem will make the household was always bumpy and if left unchecked it will sink. By then, starting ansur and mutual understanding between the husband and wife selalunya will save the state and households will continue eternally happy