What If I Still Have Feelings For My Ex Girlfriend - Can You Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend

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Perhaps, you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend and you are really wondering about what is your chances of getting her back.

Well, it can depend on several factors like the length of time you have broken up with her, whether she still have feelings for the, the main problem that causes the break up etc.

Yet it is sometimes quite hard to tell. For example, logically, you may think that the longer the period of break up, the harder it is to get your ex back. But this is not necessarily true. It might be true for some couples because due to the length of time, one of them may have already moved on to the next relationship.

Yet, it is also not unusual to hear of people getting back together after breaking up for more than a year. Perhaps, it is because "absence made the heart fonder" or maybe because "time heals all wounds".

Whatever the situation is, it will be quite helpful to you if you know what are some of the common mistakes that many guys make when trying to get their ex girlfriend back. You certainly don't want to make these mistakes if you are trying to get your girlfriend back as it ...
... will make the situation worse.

1) Talking about the break up as soon as you meet

In an attempt to get your girlfriend back, you might decide to talk about the issues regarding your break up. While it is definitely necessary to resolve any problem that causes the break up, you shouldn't do it during you first contact with her.

Take this time to relax and enjoy each other company instead. You want to take thing slowly for the time being.

2) Calling your ex again and again

If your ex girlfriend is not answering your call, she might be avoiding you for her own reasons. Maybe she is not ready to talk to you yet. So, you don't want to call her so many times on the same day. Just do it once. If you didn't get through to her, you can always call her again a few days later.