Should I Get Back Together With My Ex - How Can I Get My Ex Back

By Author: Allan Lim
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"Should I get back together with my ex after my break up?" Perhaps you have been thinking about this question for quite some time now and are still at a loss about what to do.

(Note: The tips below apply to both men and women, for simplicity, I will use "he" in the rest of this article.)

First, it may be helpful to look at what stages you are at. For simplicity, let us divide it into two stages.

(Note: There is no hard and fast rule. Your stage one may take more than 30 days as you may need more time to heal your emotion.)

Stage one: You have just broken up (less than 30 days)

This is not the time to think about this question as you are probably too confused to make the right decision. Instead, you want to focus on clearing you mind and healing your broken heart. You can't be objective enough when you are not in a positive emotional state.

Stage two: You have already separated from your ex for some time already (more than 30 days)

Is your ex really totally over you already? If that is the case, it might be best for you to move on instead of trying to get your ex back.

So, ...
... how can tell if your ex is totally over you already?

First, you can try contacting him. Don't call him more than once per day if he doesn't answer your call. Wait a few more days. Repeat this cycle is he still doesn't answer you. General, you want to gradually extent the number of days you should wait before calling him again.

If for months, he refuses to answer your call, it may be time to move on already.