Stop Break Up - How To Stop Break Up Without Spoiling Your Chances

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Breaking up can be an extremely devastating event for a person. Most of the time, it is difficult for people to understand the pain of a break up until they have personally experienced it for themselves. If you have just broken up with your lover, perhaps the number one concern you have now is about how to stop a breakup.

In this article, let us answer a question about how to stop breakup. (Take note that it doesn't matter whether you are a man or a woman, what you are going to learn will apply to members of both genders.)

Question:

I have just broken up with my boyfriend of 5 years 2 days ago. However, I still love him deeply and I really don't want to break up with him. Can you teach me how to stop break up?

Answer:

Thank you for your question and I understand your frustration. Since you have just broken up with your boyfriend 2 days ago, I believe you may not be in the right emotional state to deal with the issues now. I suggest you give yourself some time to unwind and improve your emotional state before you contact your boyfriend again.

You will definitely not want to meet your ...
... boyfriend for the time being as you may not know what to say and what to do.

Before that, I think it is very important that you are aware of what you should not do. I mention this because I realize that a lot of people made this mistake.

No matter how tempting it may be, don't try to contact your boyfriend too many times. Sometimes, when people want to stop a break up, they will try to call their lovers several times per day even though their lover refuses to answer their call.

The reason why you do not want to do that is because it will make you appear needy, which is definitely not what you want. You may want to suggest to your boyfriend that both of you shall not meet for the time being in order to give both parties time to think things through. He is more likely to welcome this gesture since I don't think he will want to meet up with you so soon after the break up.

Ask him out when both of you have cooled down and both of you will be in a better state to talk to each other.