How Can I Get My Ex Back - How Do I Get My Ex Back Even If The Situation Is Very Bad

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How to get my ex back if the situation is very bad? Is it possible? Can it be done?

Perhaps you do not think it is possible to get back with your ex. Well, before trying to get back your ex, there are some very important questions that you must ask yourself. Is this relationship worth it? Is it beneficial for both parties? Be honest with yourself. If your answer is yes, then go all out and try to salvage it.

While some relationships can't be saved or are not worth saving, there are many people who do manage to get back their ex. In fact, if you are an observer, you wouldn't even believe it. For example, there are men/women who had affairs again and again, people in verbally or physically abusive relationship and couples who have separated for years getting back again.

These examples simply illustrate that relationships can be salvaged no matter how impossible it may seemed. If you have decided that you want to get back your ex, there is one thing that you should never do. In fact, this is definitely one of the greatest mistakes that people made.

So what is this mistake? It is contacting ...
... your ex several times per day, either by phone or text messages, even if your ex did not bother to answer your call or reply to your message. A lot of people made this mistake because it is sometimes too devastating and they don't really know what to do next. Therefore they resort to pestering their ex in order to make their ex change their mind.

There is a very important reason why you shouldn't pester your ex. It makes you appear needy or desperate and will drive your ex even further away. Try to put yourself in your ex shoe instead. If someone keep on contacting you, wouldn't you want to run away. I believe you will want to run away as soon as possible.

What you will want to do instead is to suggest giving each other some time to think through things. The period of time can ranged from 2 weeks to a month depending on your situation. This is a more mature way of handling things and it may make your ex respect you more. It will also give you more time to heal your own emotion. You can't make good decision when you are not a positive emotional state. By getting your emotion under control, you will think better and this will indirectly increase your chances of getting your ex back.