Should I Sleep With My Ex In Order To Win My Ex Back

By Author: Allan Lim
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"Should I sleep with my ex? Can I win him back if I sleep with him? Is it right or wrong to do that?"

Perhaps you want to stop your break up and you have decided that you are very willing to do whatever it takes in order to win your ex back, even to the extent of sleeping with him.

What is my take on that?

Well, my advice to you is that you must really reconsider your decision. Chances are that sleeping with your ex will not help you in anyway to get him back. It may even make the situation worse than before.

First, it is important to understand that people don't just break up for no reason. There are always at least one or few main problems that can cause a break up. It is of utmost importance to deal with these main problems first.

It is only after the main problems are resolved will you be able to build a strong and stable relationship. Furthermore, in the process of dealing with the main problem, it is likely that both of you will start to understand each other more and will grow to love each other even more.

If both of you don't deal with those problems, they will most probably ...
... resurface again after both of you got back together.

In fact, it is not uncommon to see couples patching up and break up again, sometimes to the extent of several times. You certainly do not want to be like them. You definitely do not want to go through the pain of breaking up more than once.

In the best scenario, maybe you can get your ex back for a short period of time. But chances are some time later, both of you may break up again as the main problems in your relationship are not solved yet.

And you should also consider the risk of pregnancy. Perhaps, both of you may try to take the best prevention possible. But you never know what can happen. It is best to avoid it altogether, rather than take the risk, no matter how small the risk is.

Of course, ultimately, it is still your decision. I shall not discuss whether it is right or wrong to do that as it really depends on an individual' background and culture. But you will definitely want to think carefully about it. Make sure that you don't do something that you will regret later.