How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back - Getting Ex Back When She Is Ignoring Me

By Author: Allan Lim
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How can I get my girlfriend back in the most difficult situation? How can I get my girlfriend back if she is ignoring me? I am at a loss of what to do. Should I simply give up and move on since it is impossible anyway?

Are you trapped in such a situation described above? Your ex ignores you and you think it is impossible to get your girlfriend back?

Well, of you are really serious about getting your girlfriend back, then you should not give up so easily. Even if your girlfriend is ignoring you, it doesn't mean it is over already. Perhaps, she is only ignoring you temporarily. You just have to wait for the right timing to contact her again, especially if both of you have just broken up.

If your ex is ignoring you, you have most probably done something wrong. Obviously, if you keep on doing the same thing, your result will never change, will it? So, you will have to use a different strategy here instead.

Perhaps you have tried too hard and have made the following common mistakes? What you want to do now is to stop doing them immediately. If you have already made those mistakes, don't worry. ...
... You can still do something to reverse the situation.

1) Trying to get to her too often

Maybe you have sent her too many text messages. Or maybe you called her too many time. So, she started to ignore you. Well, this is a very normal behavior. Put yourself in her shoes.

What happens if someone does that to you? You will want to ignore that person or even cut off all contact with that person. So, if your girlfriend has not cut off all contacts with you yet, consider yourself lucky.

2) The problem lies with her

This is another possibility that I do not want to rule out. Perhaps both of you have just broken up. She is not ready to face you yet. While you may be feeling the pain now, so is she. So, just give her some time. Give yourself the time to cool down too. You need time to think through things.

Chances are even if you mange to get her on the phone, you won't know what to say to her since you are probably still in an emotional turmoil. It is better to improve emotional state first before doing anything else. This will put you in a better position to get your girlfriend back.