How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back - How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back By Not Making These 3 Mistakes

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How can I get my girlfriend back if she is ignoring me? Is it possible? Should I just give up now and move on to another relationship?

So your ex ignores you and you are wondering whether you can get her back. Well, it depends on what you did and did not do. Below are three things that you will want to avoid doing like a plague. Doing them can potentially drive your girlfriend away from you.

1) Begging her to come back

You do not want to beg her to come back. You do not want to tell her things like, "Please come back. I miss you very much. Life without you is meaningless." The reason why is because you don't want to appear needy in front of her. This is definitely a great turn off to a girl.

The truth is no girl will even like a needy guy. So don't say these kinds of things even if you really mean what you say. They won't help you in any way and may even make the situation worse.

2) Trying to "appear" before her too often

As you really want to get your girlfriend back as soon as possible, you may try whatever means you can to get in front of her. You may try to guess where she will ...
... be going today. And you purposely go there, hoping that you will "accidentally" bump into her. And you may say, "What a coincidence. Didn't know you will be here today."

Again, don't do that. Both of you know it is not a "coincidence". It is too obvious that you are playing some tricks. Don't embarrass yourself by doing that.

3) Trying to get her to hear your voice

Just like point 2 mention above. Except that, this time, you are only trying to get her to hear your voice. You try to call her too often. And if she didn't answer your call, you will call 10 more times until she answers them.

Again, you don't want to do that. It will only annoy her more. You certainly don't want her to take things to the extreme. Push her too much and she may decide to cut off all contacts with you in the future. You don't want that to happen.

Those points mentioned above are just 3 of the many mistakes that people tend to make after a break up. You may have another question. "But what if I have already made these mistakes?"

Well, don't worry. There are always things you can do to reverse your situation.