Getting Back With Your Ex - I Want To Get Back Together With My Ex Now

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So your ex has already broken up with you and you are now thinking of getting back with your ex. However, your ex seems to be ignoring you. So you start to wonder, "Is getting my ex back plausible or is it just a distant dream? Maybe I should just give up and move on?"

Well, it really depends on how you are approaching it. Obviously, different approach is going to get you different results. Most of the time, people will choose to use the logical approach. Unfortunately the logical ways doesn't work most of the time. In fact, it usually lands you in a worse situation that will cause you quite a bit of trouble to fix it up.

In order to get your ex back, you will need to use some controversial tactics. Let's look at one example below.

1) Arguing with your ex

Most people will take the logical approach of arguing with their ex. Maybe they don't agree with the reason for the break up. So they try to convince their ex that the reason is not valid, so their ex should return to them.

Unfortunately, at this point of time, it is not the better debater who will win the game. You can try to refute all the ...
... reasons that your ex gives you for the break up. But that is not going to work.

Why?

Have you ever heard of this saying, "People want what they cannot have." It is true in a break up too. If you try so hard to argue about the break up, obviously, you are dying to get your ex back. But your ex will perceive you as someone they can easily get.

And according to this principle, since they can get you easily, they will not treasure you.

So, instead of arguing over the break up, you might do better to simply accept the break up. It may seem counter intuitive and controversial but the fact is that it works better than arguing.

Now that you understand this principle, you will want to avoid making this mistake. But what happens if you have already made this mistake or other mistakes? Can you still get your ex back?

Well, fortunately, there are still things that you can do to reverse the situation and correct your mistakes. And if you understand and use this principle well, it will definitely be much easier for you to get your ex back.