Get My Boyfriend Back - I Want To Get Back Together With My Ex

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"I want to get back together with my ex. I really want to get my guy back. Unfortunately, he is ignoring me. What should I do? How can I get my boyfriend back?"

If you still care about your boyfriend and really want to get him back, you will probably be extremely troubled by the above questions.

In this article, let us discuss how you can really get your boyfriend back. With that said, let's continue our discussion.

Question: How can I get my boyfriend back?

Answer:

Principle NO 1: People want what they cannot have.

Yes. This is one of the most important principles that you will want to know. Know it and use it well, and you will place yourself in a better position to get you boyfriend back.

When people can't have something easily, they will usually want it more. Money is a very good example. When people do not have money, they will want it more. Sometimes, they are even willing to do whatever it takes in order to get what they do not have.

Similarly, when people can have something easily, they won't want it as badly. For example, once people have lots of money, they ...
... will no longer desire it that badly. Instead they started to chase after things that money cannot buy.

In fact, a lot of people will at least made some of these mistakes just after a break up.

1) Calling ex boyfriend again and again, especially if he is not answering or replying your call.
2) Text messaging back and forth, trying to elicit positive response from him.
3) Telling boyfriend she really loves him deeply and he should come back.
4) Simply begging boyfriend to come back.
5) Contacting boyfriend's friends and family members in an attempt to find out the "real" reason for the break up. Most probably, she is trying to find out if her boyfriend is dating another girl.
6) Drunk dialing or drunk text messaging. Probably doing things that she will never do if she is sober.

If you noticed, all the above mistakes violate the principle. Those are all signs of panic. It shows the boyfriend that he can easily get his girlfriend back anytime. Therefore he won't be as interested.

What happens if you have already made all these mistakes? Well, don't worry. It is certainly not your fault. We are all prone to mistakes especially at such a trying time. The good news is that there are always things you can do to reverse the situation and make it better.