Get My Boyfriend Back - How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

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"I want to get my guy back. How can I get my boyfriend back? Is it still possible? Do I still have a chance?"

Well, if you are bothered by the above questions, then you will want to know this principle. Knowing this principle may help you in your quest of getting your ex back.

Personally, I believe that knowing and applying this principle is quite crucial to getting your boyfriend back. So, do learn and understand it well.

The principle is this, "People want what they cannot have." This principle is very true is various areas of your life. It doesn't only apply to relationship. It also applies to areas like money, business etc.

Think about this. If someone lacks money, most probably, they will want money very badly. But once someone has an abundance of money, he/she will probably start to chase something that they do not currently have.

It doesn't matter whether what you are chasing after is meaningful or not. Most human beings just have the tendency to chase after the things that they do not or cannot easily have.

This is also the same in your relationship. So, how can you ...
... apply this principles to get your ex back?

Well, here is a guideline:

You do not want to appear desperate! You do not want to appear needy! If you can just do that, it can greatly increase your chances of getting your ex back.

Yes, you cannot show your boyfriend that you want him badly, even though you really feel this way. People are naturally turned off by desperate and needy behavior. So, avoid doing things like calling your ex too often. If your ex refuses to answer your call or doesn't bother to reply you, wait a few more days before you call him again.

Also, avoid saying things like, "I need you to come back", "I can't live without you" etc..

You want to appear confident and happy instead. You want to live as if it doesn't matter whether he is in your life or not. I know it is extremely difficult for you to do that but you will want to try you very best.

This makes you more attractive. Instead of focusing on your ex boyfriend, focus on yourself instead. Improve your appearance. Improve your health. Improve your social skill. Improve other areas of your life. By improving yourself, you will have a higher chance to attract him back.