Getting Ex Back - Can I Get My Ex Back If I Do These Two Things

By Author: Allan Lim
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Is getting ex back an "Elephant" task for you and makes you feel like giving up? Well, if your answer is yes, then I have a good news for you. Getting your ex back need not be as difficult as it seems as long as you know what to do and what to avoid. If you have a good action plan, getting your ex back will seem like magic, as though it is the "magic of making up".

Perhaps, a question you may have is "Can I get my ex back if I do these two things?" This question is fabricated by me. Of course, nobody will ask such a question. But I am going to answer this question in this article because I believe these are two of the most common mistakes that many people made just after a break up.

If you have already broken up for quite some time already, you will also want to take note of the point mentioned below and see whether you have made those mistakes. And do not worry too much if you have already made them. There are always things you can do to reverse your situation.

So, what are these two things?

1) Trying to contact your ex over and over again

Can you see why this is a mistake? Well, if someone ...
... try to force something onto you, will you try to chase him/her off or at least try to run away. This is the same principle. By calling him or her again and again, you are forcing something on your ex. Of course, you will make him/her run away.

If you drive your ex too much, he/she may take the extreme measure of cutting off all contacts with you. You don't want that to happen, do you?

2) Trying to "talk" him/her back

You can't just "talk" people back into a relationship. What do I mean by talking him/her back.

Consider this scenario. Johnny decided to break off with Lucy. Lucy was devastated. She still loves Johnny and wants him back. So she tried to beg him back. She tried to persuade Johnny. She told Johnny that she still cared for him very much.

Doing all these things is only going to drive your ex crazy and makes them want to run away as soon as possible. By not doing all these things, you will increase your chances of getting them back.