Getting Ex Back - Getting Ex Back Without Losing Him/her As A Friend

By Author: Allan Lim
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Getting ex back can be said to be a science as well as an art.

Why do I say that?

It is a science because there are very specific steps that you can follow, which will enhance your chances of getting your ex back.

It is an art because even if you know the specific steps, you will still need to know how to correctly apply it in your situation.

Perhaps, one of the most important principles that you must understand is this, "People Want What They Cannot Have." This principle does not apply only to how to get your ex back, it also applies to other areas of life like money, business, etc.

Knowing this principle well increase your chances of getting your ex back, almost like magic. You too can enjoy the "magic of making up".

For example, if you don't have money, you will most probably desire to have more money. But once you have an abundance of money, you started to realize the money isn't everything after all. So you started chasing after other things that you do not currently have.

Sometimes, it doesn't matter whether what you are chasing is meaningful or not. It is simply human ...
... nature to chase after things that they do not have, sometimes, to the expense of other things.

So, how can you make use of this principle to help you get your ex back? Well, it can be very simple. Before you decide to do anything, you must consider whether what you are doing violates the principle.

Just an example to illustrate. Let's say that you try to call your ex. Your ex did not reply your phone call. So you are tempted to call him/her until he/she answers the call. Can you see how this action violates the principle?

It indirectly shows that you are needy and desperate. When he/she realize that you actually called him/her so many times, he/she will intuitively know that you will do anything to get back with him/her.

In other words, your ex knows he/she can get you very easily. So, according to the principle, things that you can get easily, you will not treasure it as much. So, don't make yourself an easy target. Work on improving yourself and show your ex that there are many other people who are interested in you too. If he/she manage to get you back, it is actually his/her privilege.