How To Get My Ex Back - Stop A Breakup

By Author: Allan Lim
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Are you trying to figure out the answer to these questions, "How to get my ex back when he/she is not even responding to my call and I am the only one trying? Is it still possible? Do I still stand a chance?"

Well, no matter how bad your situation seems, it is possible to get your ex back even if you are the only one trying. Most relationship can be saved if you know exactly what to do and what to say.

However, there are two things that you must know. First, you must know exactly what you must never do. Do them and it can really hurt your chances of getting your ex back.

Second, you should know what you can do. Doing them will enable you to stop a breakup. From what I know, there is one very common mistake that most people made just after the break up. If you want to stop a break up, you will want to avoid this mistake.

So, what is this mistake?

You might be surprised by the answer since this is supposed to be the logical thing to do. Unfortunately, being logical in this scenario will not help you but will make the situation worse instead.

The mistake is simply to argue about ...
... the break up. Why is this a big mistake? Well, there are various reasons. Perhaps you can't accept the reason he/she gives for the break up. Therefore, you tried to reason with him/her why he/she should not break up with you. Chances are not only will you fail to convince him/her, you will drive him/her further away. This can cause even more arguments.

The next reason why you don' want to argue is because you do not want to appear needy. Think about it this way, do you like a needy person who keeps on clinging onto you? Chances are you will try your very best to get rid of him/her. That is why you do not want to argue or beg him/her to come back to you.

Instead, what you will want to do is to agree with the break up. This may sound counter intuitive but it works. First, this is something that he/she did not expect. He/she will never expect that you will agree with the break up. In fact, he/she might even feel "angry" that you accepted the break up so graciously. Instantly, you place yourself in an advantageous position.

If you have already made the mistake mentioned above, do not panic as there are still things that you can do to reverse or even improve the situation. Therefore, you still have the ability to stop a breakup.