How To Get My Ex Back - How Do I Get My Ex Back

By Author: Allan Lim
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Perhaps you have been losing sleep and has been thinking about this question, "How to get my ex back? Is it possible?" Well, if you truly believe that the relationship is worth saving, there is always a possibility to get your ex back no matter how hopeless your situation seems to you.

First, it is very important for you to know what you should and should not do. Doing certain things can increase you chances of success. Similarly, doing certain things can make the situation worse.

In this article, we will briefly discuss some of the things that you should not do. If you have already done them, then you must stop doing them immediately. Also, don't worry too much about it as there are always things you can do to reverse the situation.

Most importantly, you do not want to blame yourself for making these mistakes. We are not perfect and we do make mistakes from time to time. This is especially true when we are emotionally down.

So, how to get my ex back? What are the things that I must never do?

1) Never argue with your ex about the break up

Most probably, you are not able ...
... to accept the reason that your ex gives for the break up. Even though you can't accept the reason, you should never try to argue about it. This is a very common mistake that many people have made.

What happens when you argue?

Chances are you will drive your ex further away. He/she will start becoming more defensive and will stir up even more argument.

2) Never contact your ex too many times in a day

This is especially important if your ex does not wish to talk to you for the time being. By calling more often, it can make you appear needy. I believe you do not wish to be perceived as a needy person by your ex. So, don't do it.

If you have just broken up, it is best that you give yourself and your ex some time to cool down before your start contacting him.

There are also other things that you should not do but we will not discuss it in this article. I have listed the above two because those are the most common mistakes that people made because they are not aware of them.

By not doing those two things, you will not risk reducing your chances of getting back with your ex.