Get My Lover Back - How Can I Get My Ex Back

By Author: Allan Lim
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For most people that have just gone through a break up, their number one concern is this, "How can I get my lover back?" If this is also your concern, then there are certain things that you must know.

First, doing certain things can increase your probability of getting your lover back. Second, there are other things that you must avoid doing. Doing them can make your situation worse and make it harder for you to get your lover back.

In this article, we will look at some of the things that you can do.

So, what are the things that I can do to get my lover back?

Let us look at the answers to these questions.

Question: Should I give my lover more space?

Answer: This is definitely a wise thing to do. When both of you have just broken up, you may be eager to try and contact him/her. Try not to do that. It may not be a good timing to meet up so soon after the break up, especially if you are not emotionally stable during this period. Only meet up when you feel you are ready to do so.

In fact, one thing you might want to do is to clear your room of all the things that will remind you ...
... of your ex. You don't want to think of unhappy memories when you look at those objects. Of course, I am not asking you to throw them away. What you can do is to keep them in a box or a cupboard so that you will not see them. And of course, stay optimistic and believe that the situation will improve.

Question: Should I agree with the break up?

This is another thing that you should do. I know you may not be comfortable about it. Perhaps, you cannot accept the reason for the break up. But there is one thing that you must understand.

The break up has already occurred; therefore it is not going to be of much help if you try to argue with your lover about it. Instead, do the opposite and unexpected stuff. Accept it graciously. There is a psychological reason behind why it works but it is beyond the scope of this article to discuss about it now.

Those are just two of the things that you will want to do. By doing them, you will increase your chances to win your ex back.