What Really Makes People So Unique?

By Author: Ann Philip
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There are just as many personalities in people as there are number of people. No two individual is the same and only a close resemblance in personality traits is possible. People are prisoners of their experience. A witty personality is one who has had a lot of experience dealing with difficult situation, and at the extreme end is another class of people who can turn rude and be impolite with little or no provocation. It is always good do a little personality analysis before you build relationships with people and knowing their uniqueness is the key to keeping them in good humor.

Introverts don’t mingle with everyone easily. It’s a known fact. They’re shy, and love to remain invisible. Remember that boy in school that used to sit in the lone bench by the window? The class genius who always stutters while answering questions? Some introverts like going about their business, without any external disturbance. It’s not that their head-weighted, snotty and cumbersome. Their diffident, quiet and keep all their opinions inside they’re head. They’re every good at taking orders, never giving them. Most introverts are ...
... empathetic and would never refuse to offer help. It’s because they don’t have many friends-just a few close ones. Some introverts however, always prefer to remain isolated. In general, they lack social skills.

Many of us would have read headlines like “a girl kills her mother and father and shoots herself”, “serial killer attacking young blond girls”, “middle age women are being kidnapped and killed brutally”, etc. people who do these activities are termed as psychopaths. Though all of us commonly use this term, most of us don’t know the meaning behind it. A psychopath is a person with a personality disorder. This may not be from birth, but an incident or the environment that influences him and brings out this trait. They stand apart from other people because of their lack of empathy, deception, aggression or even irritability that they cannot control!

Everybody wants to become smart in today’s world. Because smart people can thrive well and face challenges in a smart way. From students to adults in the corporate world, being smart is the need of the hour. Though some people are born with such qualities, others have to acquire those skills. How can we become smart? As a first step towards that we can set our goals in a weekly manner and try to achieve it. We should also open our eye and ears to the world and should be aware of the things going around us. That means we should update knowledge. Being a good listener, showing patience, being nice to people are the other qualities that a person should acquire to become smart.

And next comes the ones who are humorous. Give any situation; they can create humor out of it. I had a friend who had this uncanny ability of being humorous even in the trickiest situation. He once got mugged and joke about it saying that the mugger was a fool as my friend had only bills and discount coupons in his purse. The mugger is going to have a headache when he sees the huge expenses that my friend has to deal with everyday. Seriously, being mugged can cause depression and state of shock to some people, but my friend was just cool as an ice. This is one of the brilliant and striking ability of humorous people.

Although there are different kinds of people, we have classified them according to our knowledge, it is really important to know which category we really belong. This does not take us much time because, when we can judge others, we can always judge ourselves. At this point of time I would to say that, it is important for us to know people are around us; however it more appreciating if we can judge our own minds before we do for others. This could help us improve others and also reciprocate with different kinds of people, especially when we visit different places in the world. If we are able to adjust to our surroundings by knowing ourselves, there will not be a necessity to grade other into different types.

Ann is a freelance writer and a blogger. She writes on all categories including entertainment, technology, Internet, people's interests, hobbies etc. She gathers a lot of informative stuff by surfing the web with her high-speed Internet connection powered by Xfinity Internet