Pat Mesiti: Your Destiny Is Seldom Linked To Those Who Walk Away From You

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Have you ever had business partners or close friends who one day walked away from you? Let me help you get over the pain of that by telling you your destiny is no longer linked to those people. Certain people will leave you, and when they do, let them go. Don't try and talk them into staying, because you may end up trying to do that for the rest of your life.
Your destiny is seldom tied to those who walk away from you. When people don't belong in your life anymore, not even a truckload of super glue is going to make them stay. There will always be people who share our lives and then move on. That part of the story comes to a close, but the story and the journey continues. Never beg people to stay against their will. Sometimes the gift of goodbye opens up another door. Move on, but don't move away.
Here is what I suggest you do. Accept partings as part of life. Get up, go out, have a great meal, treat yourself to a night out with some good friends, and start living again. There is something better in store for you.
If, however, you know that your destiny and dreams are linked to a person, then be with them, ...
... hang with them. You won't have to beg them to stay, they will want to stay. You won't have to pull strings behind the scenes to get them to stay. They will willingly accept you and look for your friendship. Hang around those kinds of people and realise they are the ones who will help you to get active and living again.
Within some relationships there are times of divorce, and divorce is like an amputation. You survive, but there is less of you, and it actually feels worse if you didn't want the divorce.
Challenge
If someone close has abandoned you, you have to understand that life goes on, that dreams live on. And you have to forgive. You see, you have to acknowledge your mistakes, and take time to rebuild. Start living and giving again. That's the best way in which to build a great destiny and a great future.

Other Motivational Books by Pat Mesiti
Attitudes and Altitudes
Pat Mesiti at his best! This book addresses the "how's" of leadership. It deals with vital principles such as leader development, how to network people and how to bring out the best in those around you. Pat Mesiti speaks on: growing big people, passion, leadership, mentoring, encouragement, attitude, credibility.

Dreamers Never Sleep
Pat Mesiti, in his comical yet challenging way, will show you how to: replace wrong perceptions with winning attitudes, deal positively with change, define your destiny, go beyond the 'norm', handle failure and discover what success really is and how it can affect your world.

Opportunity Knocks
If you are one of those millions of people around the world waiting for an opportunity to take your life to another level, then this book is for you.
1) recognize opportunities
2) grab opportunities that come your way
3) Persevere with opportunities
Wake Up and Dream
Discover the power of personal vision and how your dreams can help change the world.
The various topics include: how to rise above the limitations of your past, defining your dream, developing a plan to make your dream a reality, developing character, skills and attitudes that facilitate change, and unlocking the gifts and talents of those around you.
To obtain more information on Pat Mesiti's Motivational Books, CD's and products, or to book Pat as a Motivational Speaker for an upcoming event please visit www.mesiti.com