Secrets To Messaging On Dating Sites

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Well, as many of you men out there know, it's not easy getting a girl to respond to you on a dating site - it's just not. Most of us put in serious man-hours trying to find the right line that will compel a girl to respond to your message, hook, line and sinker.

So what's the secret? How can you get a girl to respond to your message on a dating site every time? Interestingly enough it's really not that hard. Remember: the ladies are on that site to find a man - that's the first weapon in your arsenal - the fact that indeed, if you can compel them to respond, they do want you. The following secrets can be utilized on free dating or paid dating sites together.

Get Into The Woman's Head
As I said before, woman are on dating sites for one reason - to meet a man and every single man who messages a particular woman does have a chance but you've got to get into her head.

But how do you do that? How do you get into a woman's head? Well, at first thought it seems difficult but let me give you a few examples to show you what I mean.

Pick out something ...
... from her profile
Here's a really simple one. Let's say for instance you've found a profile with a girl that you just can't resist. Don't give up before you've started. Be smart. Look at her dating profile and pick out something interesting. Example: if you found one of her interests is skiing, send her a message with the regular "hello" and "nice to meet you" but make sure to add your most hilarious experience while you were on the slopes. Maybe you crashed into a bus, maybe you broke your leg doing a back-flip. Whatever it is, connect with her through a common interest.

Challenge her
OK so you've come across a profile that doesn't have much information. You're stuck and even wondering why she joined a dating site in the first place. Don't fret, everything will be fine. In this case you need to find something to politely challenge her with. It doesn't have to be a challenge against her in particular. It could

Talk about something in her pictures
This is a good one but it's smarter to not talk about her in the pictures, try to grab some information from her profile and connect it to a picture. For instance if you can see that she's in France, mention your trip to France or better yet, if you haven't been to France, tell her how much you want to go and ask her to to tell you about her trip. This is one of the best secrets to getting a girl to respond on a dating site. Can you tell me one woman who doesn't like talking about herself and things she's done?

The Take Home
As you can see it shouldn't be that easy and there are millions of variations to these secrets but they all revolve around getting in her head. A woman likes to talk about herself and if you're the kind of guy that likes to listen then you're already one step closer to meeting her. Good luck!

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