Marriage Bites?

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Many bonds which we have in our life mature slowly. Just like that, marriage is bond which usually takes a while to mature and become strong. There is not a single person in this world who does not love getting married. Everyone wants someone to love them and care for them at all times. But, surprisingly there are certain people who are scared of getting married. This could be due to them having commitment issues.

Young men for example are the majority of the ones who do not like getting married as they detest the idea of being committed to one person for the rest of their lives! To them, marriage is more like a burden and weight on their shoulders rather than being something beautiful. Marriage phobia has always existed in every society but it has increasingly become more common due to materialism and modernization. Within the past couple of years, many women have also started to fear the thought of getting married. Marriage phobia arising in a person might be due to different factors but there are nonetheless, some common factors which bring about negative feelings towards ...
... marriage.

A person who is said to have marriage phobia would, at the initial stage probably may shy away with talks of marriage. This is just the beginning and may not seem to be such a big deal. However as time progresses and the time to get committed come closer, their fear gets a firmer hold of them and start to influence them. Most people who are affected by marriage phobia have usually experienced a close family member or friend who has had an unsuccessful marriage. These unfortunate incidents usually tend to affect people more than one can imagine and can stay in a person’s mind and heart and create a wound which could take a long time to heal. Having experienced such events make a person want to stay away from marriage in fear of not having to experience the same thing.

People who get affected by marriage phobia tend to think that no marriage can ever work. These people usually need help to have their opinions and beliefs changed. However if they are unwilling to cooperate and do not wish to change, it is best to stay away from them as they can influence others too. This can be quite dangerous for the physical and mental state of a person. If you are getting married, don’t stress! Just relax and have the time of your life. Sure it is a big deal but if you’re happy than nothing else matters!