11 Ways To Get Women To Notice You - In A Good Way

By Author: Bellaisa Filippis
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You may be very talented at getting women to notice you in all the wrong ways but what you really want is women to notice you in all the right ways. It can be easier said than done if you don't understand what women want and what they find attractive.

So here are 11 different ways to get women to not only look your way but like what they see when they look.

1. Be Confident In Whatever You Do

Whether you are mowing the lawn or trying to break the world record for how many hot dogs you can stuff in your mouth you want to show confidence in your abilities and talents.

Confidence oozes out of you when you have it and there is nothing sexier than a confident guy.

Just remember that confidence has a way of slipping over to arrogance which is the least sexy attribute of a guy so don't shout it from the roof tops but instead let it shine through without having to say a word.

2. Be Helpful and Compassionate

Are you the guy that holds the door open for the elderly or are you the guy that doesn't even notice an elderly person is around? If you don't notice them then you have a less ...
... chance of women noticing you.

It doesn't have to be elderly people; it can be anyone who you choose to help out that may need it.

A woman may not notice you at all, even if you are sitting beside them for hours, but if you do an act of kindness she will see you immediately. So start doing some random kind things from the heart and watch women notice you and give you a knowing smile immediately after.

3. Take Care of Yourself - Physically

You don't have to be a muscle man but you should take care of yourself to some degree. I mean, you have to stay clean and look clean and smell clean for attraction to take place.

The great thing about women is that they see past appearances and include a lot of other traits they are looking for in their list. So if you are overweight and think you are not the greatest catch on the block a woman may think otherwise depending on your other traits.

Unfortunately though if you do nothing to look after yourself then you will probably be in the back of the line on any women's list.

4. Take Care of Yourself - Mentally

A positive outlook on life goes a long way, not only for yourself but in how others view you. If you are in a frame of mind where your life sucks and everything around you sucks then how can you expect a woman to want to jump on your misery train with you?

Look after your mental health by having goals in life, seeing the positive side of situations; going after the things you want in life, and acknowledging your self-worth and contribution to this world.

5. Smile and Even Laugh - Enjoy Life

A guy who enjoys life is extremely attractive to women. Women want a guy who is going to add joy and fun into their life and if you are someone who can make them laugh and have fun then you are going to be a hugely sought after guy.

6. Take Charge and Make Decisions

I'm not talking about trying to make every decision for a woman. That's stepping over the line. But women do like a guy who is willing to take charge and make some suggestions or decisions for the both of them.

So if you tend to say "I don't know what do you want to do?" then you may want to start writing down a list of other, more concrete, things to say instead.

7. Be Honest and Real

Women can see through a fake story or attitude instantly. So if you are trying to pretend to be the strongest man alive or someone who knows everything about fine wine then - and you don't, then you better admit it and start focusing on things that are actually true.

No women wants to find out that you've been lying about your talents or that the real you has been hidden under the fake you that you thought they would like. You will most likely end up losing the girl if you got her with lies which can feel worse than her not liking you for you in the beginning because now you have feelings attached.

So be real and be yourself.

8. Don't Be a Pushover

If you have a habit of letting people walk all over you then break the habit as soon as possible. Get a backbone and stand up for what's right and what you will allow other people to do to you.

If someone is making you feel bad about yourself, that is not okay, and it comes across as being weak and incapable of standing up for yourself.

This also applies with others. If you see someone getting pushed around or treated unfairly then speak up for them. You will have much more pride in yourself when you do and women will be drawn to you.

9. Eye Contact Has Been Highly Underrated When Getting Women To Notice You

Eye contact lets a woman know that you have noticed her and that you are confident in your ability to please her.

Women will take a lot of meaning from eye contact so you want to make sure that you use it correctly and don't send the wrong message.

Think about smiling with your eyes. This is the kind of look you want to give her with a hint of sexy and craving involved. Your gaze should not be held for too long as it can quickly cross over into the creepy side of things but it should not be held too short that it looks as though it's just a quick glance over her and not interested.

Give her a couple seconds of your best eye contact every so often and follow it up with an eventual conversation.

10. No Rambling or Unnecessary Words

When you do have a conversation around or with a girl don't be that guy that rambles on and on and on or adds a whole bunch of unnecessary information into their sentences and stories.

While this may be okay later on in a relationship, once you get to know each other, it is not suitable for trying to get someone to notice you in a good light.

The problem with rambling is this. It can be exhausting to listen, it will not give her a chance to talk, it will make you look like someone who loves hearing their own voice, and you will probably shoot out a few things that can offend, turn her off, or just look plain stupid when you ramble. The chances of something being said that you did not want to say greatly increase when you ramble on and on.

11. Don't Say Too Little - Be Interesting

If you say too little then you can come across as not being interested in conversation or as just plain boring.

Women like a guy who can hold a conversation and has interesting stuff to add to it. So don't answer with one or two words but really give her something to talk about.

Bellaisa is the owner of Pleasure Her Tonight, a website that talks about how to attract women, seduce women, and please a woman.