7 Signs That Someone Is Attracted To You And That They Like You

By Author: Bellaisa Fillippis
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It can be hard to decipher some peoples actions and reactions to you when you talk to them, walk by them, or even just look at them. Does their smile mean they are attracted to you or that they think you are acting crazy? Does their silence mean they want you to stop talking to them or that they are so nervous around you that they are literally at a loss for words?

Here are 7 signs that he or she does like you and is not just accidently giving you mixed signals but is actually flat out waving a flag of interest that sometimes may be hard to see.

They Touch You More Than Ever - Literally

Whether it's accidental or not they seem to be grazing your thigh with their hand or touching your arm as they go by or any other form of contact that involves your body parts and theirs.

Humans are very aware of their space and what's in it, and humans are also contact seeking beings when they like someone. If touching is occurring more often than the occasional bump into each other then it is a good sign that they are actively trying to reach out and touch you. And no one will actively reach out and physically touch ...
... someone they are not interested in you.

So even if they make it look like an accident you will know that they are either consciously or unconsciously touching you because they are into you.

Their Friends All Of A Sudden Pay More Attention to You

Friends tell friends things - like when they are interested in someone. So if you notice that their friends have started looking at you or talking to you more than chances are that you are being talked about and your presence has started to become more noticed.

We are aware of the things in our mind and we take notice of them by interacting with them. If you are not aware of someone or something then you will most likely not interact with them or notice it until you do become aware of it. Like that fountain you passed a dozen times but never noticed till you needed a drink of water.

So more attention mean more people's minds are thinking about you which in turn means you are being talked about - which is probably coming from someone who is interested in you. And if all those people are connected to that one person then BAM - that's your connection.

They Go Through Mood Swings When You Are Around

They seem extremely happy or extremely quiet. They do not seem to be acting like they do when you see them with their friends or other people.

The reason is because they are nervous around you and they are trying to act differently than they really are. This usually manifests itself into 'weird' behaviour that doesn't look normal and instead looks a little off the wall.

Think about it. How many times have you've been around someone you like and acted ridiculously not like yourself only to kick yourself later.

They Ask Questions That Seem Out Of Place

If someone likes you they will be thinking about you and obviously wondering about you. Who knows exactly what they are thinking about but you can be sure that it isn't something they would admit to thinking.

There comes a point when they try to find out information about you that most people wouldn't normally need to ask. This information will help them fill in the blanks with what they are thinking.

It's also a way that most people show their interest to you in a subtle way - they try to ask you questions to seem like they are really interested in the answers.

Examples are: What is your favourite music, movie, food, vacation spot, or anything else that is personal to your likes, dreams, or desires.

They Smile a Lot When They Are Around You

This boils down to nerves mixed with feeling good about being around you. This often comes out in the form of nervous giggling and seems out of place or out of nowhere.

Real big dorky smiles are normally a huge sign of attraction and not just - being dorky.

They Say What Seems Like Inappropriate Things to You - If They Were Just Friends

This can be referring to a body part or how lucky your exes were. Anything that makes you think 'why did they say that?' is something that obviously wouldn't be in a normal everyday conversation.

This is one way of flirting. They are making it known that they notice you and appreciate you by telling you without having to outright tell you.

They Remember Details Most Other People Wouldn't Remember

They show up with your favourite coffee which happens to be a hazelnut latte with soy and a shot of espresso and half the normal amount of whipping cream with chocolate sprinkles in the shape of an N. Then they act like it was no big thing and they just happened to be at starbucks for their coffee and happened to remembered what you liked.

No one would remember all that if they didn't like you. Most married couples can't remember all that!

When we are trying to impress someone and get their attention we pay attention to every little thing they say.

Bellaisa is the owner and head 'know it all' of the Relationship Circle which is full of relationship advice, tips, and resources for all stages of relationships.