A Need To Reconsider Parenting

By Author: Raghida Hallal
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When a couple has got kids there comes a handful of responsibilities with him that they have to be performed. Bringing them up, serving them with the best isn't all about Parenting, there is something more about that, whicheach parent has to consider. Lets begin from the evolutionary state.

When the child is born, he is so cute, he is that sensitive as well. He can't speak, he can't share his feelings, but its you who has to understand what he feels, what he wants. Changing up dippers, hiring a nanny for the toddlers isn't all about Parenting. Parenting is all about love that you show towards your child. When he grows up a bit he starts sharing his moods, his feelings. He may sometimes be a bit obstinate and sometimes may try to peruse you get him things that he wants. If you are good at economic hand that wouldn't trouble you, but you have to see that the things that he is demanding are safe for him. You can't fulfill his every desire blindly. So when you kid demands something from you make sure you are getting him the one that is good for him and his ...
... health. At this moment some kids may feel that your love is fake for them. But you need to sit by their side and tell them whats the exact reason for not fulfilling his desire.

When the kids are grown up, start up with their school the time spending among the parents and the kids often decreases. This is the phase that requires the utmost attention. Several biological and psychological transformations are undertaken by the kids. At this stage which we refer as the teenage, the care for the kids becomes quite crucial. You can't be harsh to them and you can't be too lenient either. Time spending is the only thing that you can do. The greater time you spend with your kids, greater will the bond between you. As an ideal parent don't try to dictate them. Be friendly, ask them about their daily activities, share your experiences.
A man is known by the company he keeps
Many of you would be thinking that why I have mentioned this line here. Probably teenage is marked by sudden influence and distraction. Teenagers don't have the mind set up to distinguish between good and bad. They find everything good that appears to them good. As parent you can't let your child follow the path whose destination is not known to him. Out of persuasion from friends or demonstration of somebody kids often indulge them in things that are harmful not only for their health but also for their future. Try to find out if your child is involved in any such activity.

Time Time Time- its all about time. I have often seen parents busy in their daily routine and they are not able to take out a few minutes to talk to their kids and I have often seen such kids in a bad company the type of company I don't feel the need to mention here. So fulfilling the materialistic desires isn't all about Parenting, its about love, about affection and time that you spend with your kids. Its often said A child mind is like a wet clay, mould it the way you like. If you are not able to give your kids ample time you can't blame them for their acts. Spend some time with your kids. Share your feelings, your experiences with them. If they are having any problem try to resolve it. Punishments are not necessary every time. Try to forgive some of their gaffes. This will bring you closer to your child. For more help regarding parenting issues you can go for the download of this parenting e-book by Raghida Hallal that is available for free download at: http://www.free-report-for-you.com/optin/parenting